She knows why it's not a good time. In Thor's place, she would say the same or more to get the person reaching out to her to leave her alone. On the one hand, she doesn't want to push on him and possibly drive him away. On the other, she knows letting him go without so much as attempting to force a meeting could make things worse. Both are options she's loathe to admit to or try, but she has to try something.

That's all right. If today isn't good, would you mind if we planned for tomorrow? Having something to look forward to should make my books a little more interesting.

It's all she can think to do right now. Forcing the issue by showing up in Asvera unannounced will only complicate matters. Giving up at the first sign of resistance will actively harm any of her efforts to offer help and support. A first step needs to be taken, and Amelia has to be the one to make it happen.