This is the kind of reassurance she needed to hear, a reminder of those things she's already done and that have gained her trust and respect. It still feels like so little when she compares herself to someone so beloved and respected as Frigga, but that's to be expected. She's only one person, a mortal at that, so how could she ever truly compare to someone born a goddess? The best she can do is to trust Thor and lean on the relationships she's already built with everyone here. She prays it will be enough.
"It's a lot of responsibility for one person," she murmurs, her own expression nervous, "but if no one expects me to take it all on the day we marry, it should be all right with some amount of delegation and help. I can learn those things that come next as I need to, or look over a list if someone can provide it. With enough time, I'm certain I can find everyone I need who can answer my questions." Her many hundreds of questions that she'll inevitably have.
"The paperwork doesn't bother me at all, or picking up more around Asvera itself. I'll even speak to local authorities or governments as necessary. I've done such things before for my family on many occasions, and the scale of the paperwork here isn't so bad when Asvera is still growing and I've come up with processes that make sense to me." It helps that she got to take things on slowly from Thor over several months and that no one's stepped in to stop her. With all of her own knowledge and experience at play, people have mostly been very forgiving of her missteps and what they might think of as eccentricities. Her work certainly speaks enough for itself that she doesn't have to justify how and why she does things as she does for long.
But Disablot... that brings up another important matter to discuss, one that's closely bound to expectations.
"I will need help with learning the traditions I'll be expected to be head of, even if it's while I'm at your side. I've never been a religious or spiritual person, and I want to be certain I don't cause any offense. If that means I need to step aside and allow others to handle things, I'll gladly do so. All I want is for things to go well, and I'm not so proud as to suggest that means I have to be the one to do everything."
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"It's a lot of responsibility for one person," she murmurs, her own expression nervous, "but if no one expects me to take it all on the day we marry, it should be all right with some amount of delegation and help. I can learn those things that come next as I need to, or look over a list if someone can provide it. With enough time, I'm certain I can find everyone I need who can answer my questions." Her many hundreds of questions that she'll inevitably have.
"The paperwork doesn't bother me at all, or picking up more around Asvera itself. I'll even speak to local authorities or governments as necessary. I've done such things before for my family on many occasions, and the scale of the paperwork here isn't so bad when Asvera is still growing and I've come up with processes that make sense to me." It helps that she got to take things on slowly from Thor over several months and that no one's stepped in to stop her. With all of her own knowledge and experience at play, people have mostly been very forgiving of her missteps and what they might think of as eccentricities. Her work certainly speaks enough for itself that she doesn't have to justify how and why she does things as she does for long.
But Disablot... that brings up another important matter to discuss, one that's closely bound to expectations.
"I will need help with learning the traditions I'll be expected to be head of, even if it's while I'm at your side. I've never been a religious or spiritual person, and I want to be certain I don't cause any offense. If that means I need to step aside and allow others to handle things, I'll gladly do so. All I want is for things to go well, and I'm not so proud as to suggest that means I have to be the one to do everything."